THE BLOG: At the Threshold
Some women arrive at a financial transition and discover, in the middle of it, that the financial life they thought they had was partly fiction.
A credit line neither of you discussed. A retirement a...
There is a particular administrative cruelty in widowhood. At the moment you are least able to process complex information, you are handed the most consequential set of decisions of your financial lif...
In almost every divorce I have worked on, the house comes up early and it comes up loaded.
It is rarely presented as a financial question. It is presented as the thing that will keep life recognizabl...
Over the past several months, thirteen women have walked through this space. Sophia with her folders. Vera with her eleven books and her thirty-two questions organized by topic. Margaret, who never co...
There is a fact about human vision I keep returning to.
The human eye distinguishes more shades of green than any other color. Estimates vary, and the exact count is less interesting than the reason....
Naomi walked in with a business plan printed and bound. She had the vision and she had the momentum. What she did not have was health insurance, an emergency fund, or a retirement account. If you can ...
Isabel came to her first appointment with a folder. Every insurance policy organized, every statement in its sleeve, every sticky note exactly where she wanted it. What she had not done was touch the ...
Vera had read eleven books before she made the appointment. She arrived with highlighted passages and thirty-two questions organized by topic. She was not uninformed. She was so informed that she had ...
Some women keep the lists. Sophia is the one who has a folder for everything, who checked on the insurance policy three years before it came due, who knows where every document lives because she filed...
Dahlia knows her numbers. She tracks her progress, sets the next milestone before she has finished celebrating the last one, and measures herself against goals she set deliberately. If you build wealt...
There is a particular feeling that arrives after a major transition, once the immediate crisis has passed and the dust has begun to settle. It is the feeling of being behind. Behind where you thought ...
Juliet wants the household calm and the portfolio steady. She values consistency over excitement and would trade a flashy return for a plan that lets everyone sleep at night. If you find yourself smoo...